Thank you Cyril

It's approaching a year since we lost our Mum. It's approaching 12 months since I had my last round of treatment.

In recent times, I've strived to focus on what I have and what I've gained, rather than what I've lost.

It might sound strange but I have developed a sense of gratitude for what acute promyelocytic  myeloid leukemia (aka Cyril) gave me.

Cyril critically injured the person I was in early 2025.  Grief killed him.

Salman Rushdie said: "To be born again, first you have to die."

And I do feel like I have been born again. My experiences have changed the way I think about life and reinforced my priorities. I live a life of genuine gratitude. The aim is not to be happy all the time. It's about being at peace with all of life's inevitable ups and downs.

This next phase of my life is about prioritising what matters to me and not doing things to please other people. This means more time for family, friends, loved ones and the activities I'm passionate about. Work is just that. It's not who you are.

So thank you Cyril for reminding me of these valuable lessons.


Inter club XC at Worksop on Sunday, representing Clowne Road Runners.


PSUK XC Championships yesterday, flying the flag for Derbyshire.


  



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